“You’re not fooling yourself and you’re not fooling me.  You’re not fooling your friends either.  You’re definitely not fooling God.

You don’t care about purity at all.  You don’t give two $#its about righteousness.  Oh sure, you’ve never slept with anyone, but  we both know the truth:  the only reason that you’re ‘pure’ is simply because the opportunity hasn’t came along yet.

But when it does, we both know that you’ll be willing to throw out your purity AND your faith in order to get off.  You go to church and you tow the line.  You wear the smile and you say the words.

But you’re a liar.  A faker.  A phony.  A hypocrite.  You need to change.  Stop f#cking around.  You are going to ruin your life if you keep this up.  You need to have a major open heart surgery.”

Man, I needed to hear that.

You?

This is Aaron.

I love Aaron.  Aaron loves life, his fiance, people, God, drumming, and tattoos.  Alot.

A quick bio:  Aaron and I met at church, and really became friends when he committed his heart to Christ at a youth group that we were both a part of together.  We’ve travelled a bit together, and we hang out every week.

He is my accountability partner.  I trust him completely.  Relationships like this are few and far between.  My wife loves him- she is beyond grateful that there is a man who calls me on my issues, encourages me in my faith, and commands me keep pursuing a pure life!  He prays for me all the time, and emails me words of encouragement on a regular basis.  He’s also verrrry generous.  He is a HUGE reason why the Sex Rev even exists today….without his help, we wouldn’t be talking today.

John Maxwell is famous for saying- “Talent is never enough.”  Aaron is living, breathing proof of this.  He is not a superstar.  He is not a charismatic personality.  He doesn’t try to entertain you.  He’s not flashy.  He is humble.  He’s underspoken.  He’s meek.  He’s quiet.

But he’s working hard.  He prays constantly.  He spends time daily in God’s word.  While some people are coasting spiritually, Aaron is flooring it.  In a few years, you’ll see it too- talent is never enough.  It’s all about hard work, the pursuit of righteousness, and the giving of our lives to the will of God.

Aaron will be posting regularly here at No Girls Allowed.

There is MUCH that you must learn from Aaron.  He’s had struggles.  He’s screwed up alot.  He’s had a lot of past relationships.  He’s dealt with the hurt and the pain of his past.  He’s overcoming Satan.  He’s building strong relationships.  Follow him as he follows Christ.  Listen to what he says, and find ways to download it in your own life.  You need to find people like Aaron in your own life.  Trust me, it’s worth it.

Is there anything else about Aaron we should know?!  Got any good stories?!