I had a conversation last week with a 69-year-old man who lost his virginity at age 6 in a Quebec outhouse to a 7 year old Jewish girl.

Though he’d never admit it, it messed him up for life.

He estimated that he’d had sex with at least 35 women.

While engaged to his fiance, he was regularly sleeping with 2 or 3 different women at a time. He was married for a while, but eventually divorced.

I asked his opinion of marriage: “marriage is bull$#it, but living together is great.” Marriage has too many rules apparently.

I asked him what he thought of sex and women.  “F#ck or f#ck off, that’s my philsophy.”
Small wonder why she left.

He’s estranged from his daughter, and of course, he blames his wife for turning her against him.  He lives with a woman, but said if she ever asks about marriage, he’ll dump her in a minute.

Change your mind or your mind with change your life.  Don’t live in the outhouse.  Live right.  Let go of the past and its entanglements, and move on.  Learn God’s will for your relationships with the opposite gender.  Become a man worthy of the wife God has created for you. Enjoy a God-blessed sex life.  Don’t ruin dozens of women’s lives. Realize that marriage doesn’t have to be full of rules…marriage CAN BE the greatest experience of your entire life…if you bring God into it every single day.

This man doesn’t have much time left.  We’re praying often for him.  But what can I say to him?  What can I do?